10 Best Seduction Techniques?

Written by Kalpna Manek
18 January 2012

I’ve just been reading an article The 10 Best Seduction Techniques.

Of course seeing a title like that I had to go take a  look. 😉

I’m not going to bore you with the details simply because most of it was just the basic of basic advice such as smile, laugh, dress well, make eye contact.

I don't like knocking other people's work but to be honest I was a little surprised as it was in a reputable newspaper and it did not include the most obvious piece of seduction advice.

Communicate your sexual attraction

After all a laugh really only communicates that you think the person is funny.

A smile can just communicate that you are friendly.

So it’s not just any smile, but the WAY you smile, that can send shivers down a woman’s spine.

It’s not the fact that you  are making eye contact but it's what you are communicating in THAT look which spells seduction or not.

After all I can smile a friendly smile, look in your eyes and scrub up pretty well, doesn’t mean that I have an urge to sleep with you.

How do you seduce with your smile and eyes?

When you are with a woman that turns you on, connect with your desire as you are looking at her, and then let her see that in your smile.  Your smile should say “I want you”

Your eyes should be saying I want you.

In fact every breath , every movement of your body should be saying I WANT YOU.

Women do it so well.

You know when a woman has that flirty twinkle in her eye, then she smiles slowly and lowers her eyes and peeks at you underneath her lashes?

What do you think she is saying?

It’s in the sway of her hips, and the way she twirls her hair slowly around her fingers, bites her lower lip as she looks at you, squeezes her thighs together and arches her back .

Every movement screams her desire. You can bet in her mind she is picturing you touching her, running your hands over her body, kissing her and it’s making her so hot that her body is singing.

Women have it easy. We are so much more in tune with our bodies, we just let it communicate what we are feeling and thinking.

Now it’s your turn…

Do the same the thing for her.

Show a woman your desire in your slow suggestive smile, in the way you look at her. Tell her in your eyes that you want her, the tone of your voice and the way you lean forward to whisper in her ear.

Don’t hide it.

She needs to know, she WANTS to know.

This is the first real step on the road to seduction.

So many guys don't and instead hide their desire until they are absolutely certain that a woman has given all the 'yes' signals.

Stop waiting for her and start leading with your desire, make your move. She may be happily surprised or she may not be interested at all. You won't know if you do nothing, and if you wait too long she'll lose interest.

Obviously if she is really not interested then respect her and back off.

You WILL learn from your mistakes.

But don't be paralysed by the fear of giving offense, she's the woman, not you!

You have nothing to hide. Stop being scared and trying to find 'techniques' that will work 'on' a woman.

Instead start behaving like a real man and be honest about what you want.


If you can’t take this first step of honesty then the others will be a lot harder.

I acknowledge that taking that step can be confronting.

John has created a series of free videos all about being 'Fearless With Women' which will help you address this issue.

4 FREE Videos on How to Be Fearless with Women Now

Get your questions answered and leave your comments below.

{ 8 comments… read them below or add one }

Lee July 6, 2012 at 9:38 pm

Ok what’s the next step? Does it really matter what I say? You guys are so right with this article, I did this with a few women I had relations with, I would give them that I want you look, with the seductive smirk, and one thing kind of let to the next.So my real question is (scratch the first one) How can I focus on Giving, when I am focusing on my desire for her? Won’t that put me in my head? And second, Does the words really matter? Sometimes I just simply don’t know what to say during the interactiin bro. Thanks


JP Morgan Jr July 7, 2012 at 11:51 am

Your desire IS a gift Lee. The words don’t matter, the intention does. When you get this, a whole new world will open up to you. I see we are speaking soon. I will explain more then!


Lee July 7, 2012 at 11:02 pm

Ok great looking forward to it


dotingdate May 1, 2013 at 11:31 am

very good article, straight to the point and highly useful. yes i was a fool to think that showing sexual interest ia a bad thing and an offensivething to do and i was always waiting for ever for women to give all her ‘yes signals,, endlessly


Tuncman August 7, 2013 at 11:27 pm

Well agreed, straight to the subject; this is truely written by a honest friend who wants to help. Big thanks :)


imran August 17, 2013 at 10:38 pm

Finally an article on seduction which is NOT a no-brainer…Thanks Kalpna…:)


ashok September 6, 2013 at 5:25 pm

I vary appreciated by yourseduction technique.


ashok September 6, 2013 at 5:46 pm

I am very appreciated by your article.


Leave a Comment

Previous post:

Next post: